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Leah Abram's avatar

Regarding Women being too "emotional": As a trans woman who takes estrogen, I have some anecdotal insight into my emotional state (which is, as I said, anecdotal).

As soon as my egg cracked (which is trans lingo for "realized I was trans"), I came out to other trans people I knew, since they would've understood the most. I then came out to my mother and my sister. My mother couldn't believe it at first, but it took a few days and she accepts me fully for who I am. My sister is a medical doctor, and when I told her I wanted to start hormone replacement therapy, she reminded me that she had a wedding coming up and I then made the decision to start my regimen the day after her wedding because I had no idea how estrogen would affect my behavior, which can be erratic and volatile. I *really* didn't want to ruin her wedding! Well, the wedding day came, and my sister not only said I didn't ruin her wedding but I *enhanced* it!

So I started taking estrogen pills the next day. My anniversary for starting HRT (or "tranniversary" as some of us in the trans community are wont to call it) is a little over a month from now. And having been on Estrogen this entire time I can say with certainty that my emotions have become far more in control than before I started HRT. I have experience in being both a "man" and a woman and I can say with experience that I'm less emotional as a woman.*

*there are other factors, such as being more comfortable as a woman than as a man may improve my mental health rather than the overall health of women of all types, cis and trans alike, and for the third time, this is an anecdote, but my point is, I'm generally happier and less emotional than pre-transition.

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Paula R Strawser's avatar

Thank you for you unremitting focus on women's health. I am in awe. I am distracted by the imminent death of our Democratic Experiment, but I still want to keep up this fight.

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