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Ruth ND's avatar

When my water broke far too early at 17 weeks and my baby’s heart was still beating, my NY doctors gave me three options: 1) I could go home and wait to see if my body would fully miscarry my baby on its own, 2) I could opt to be induced in the ER that night, or 3) I could schedule a D&E as soon as possible. The latter, they advised, was the safest and least traumatic, and the only way to preserve my fertility. The first option was absolutely not advised. Waiting for my body to miscarry on its own came with the risk of sepsis. Inducing came with the risk that not all of the tissue would come out in the birth, which they told me happened a not insignificant amount of the time. The D&E was the only sure-fire way to guarantee that no complications would happen. Especially since it sounded like options 1 and 2 often would end up requiring a D&E anyway. And let me be clear, none of these options involved having a live baby at the end. If these people want to do away with D&Cs and D&Es they’re going to fuck around and find out. And a lot of women are going to die. This whole situation is medieval and obscene.

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Jeannine Coulombe's avatar

I have had two c-sections and they were both traumatic in their own ways. My body will never be the same, but in the end, I had two healthy babies, and I, nor them, would be here without that procedure. I cannot imagine the trauma of a c-section to remove a dead fetus. It is medieval and cruel and so rage inducing. It’s like torture.

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