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Kyndra's avatar

This spousal permission before anything reminds me......I got a tubal ligation at 26yrs old in 2009. Only after being married & already having the 2 kids of different genders, did I qualify. (Gross) I only was even offered this as an option because I had many medical professionals urging me to do so for my pre-existing health issues. I had to get a signature from my then husband, (now ex husband) and jump thru soooooo many hoops with finding a hospital to deliver my 2nd kid via c-section & get the tubal then. It was soooooo hard in Texas to find one that wasn't funded by the Church, & would agree to let my Dr do it there. I finally was honest bout my abusive domestic situation with my OB at the end of my 2nd pregnancy. I told him my ex would never sign for me to get sterilized, that cops don't help but make it worse & leave me with the wolf to be punished......He sighed and got real quiet then said "but you've been married for awhile right? I'm sure you have seen his signature....." he handed me a pen & told me to grab some donuts for the office staff down the street & come right back with it signed & told me to only hand it to a specific lady. They saved my life & made it possible to leave him a couple yrs later. During the C-section, the Dr urged my Ex to follow the baby out of the room and we would be right behind him. He waited to see my ex leave the surgery unit to do the tubal. He leaned over the sheet wall to wink at me right beforehand! That Dr. has obviously saved millions by now with that kind of help! I'll be 40 this year and I am so grateful to have crossed paths with him.

Laura Terrell's avatar

"...especially articles that focus on the relationship these ‘homes’ have with for-profit adoption agencies. What a fucking nightmare."

I keep asking this but how is this not trafficking?

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