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Christine Langhoff's avatar

I'm not afraid to use the A-word; but I think it might be wise to re-frame the issue by emphasizing the denial of bodily autonomy abortion restrictions and bans bring. Self determination is one of those things Americans imagine is an inalienable right, but half of us have now lost it.

So Biden might feel more comfortable by using language like "medical decisions belong to a patient with advice from a doctor," or "so-called small government advocates want to intrude into personal decisions". Perhaps he might say, "I would never have an abortion, but someone I love might need one. I have the means to assure that happens, but not everyone does."

Finally, I'd love to see every single Democrat who references abortion in any way recite the facts:

91% of abortions occur before 13 weeks gestation

˜8% of abortions occur between 13-21 weeks (often due to roadblocks to care)

˜1% of abortions occur after 21 weeks, usually due to some calamity (it's when scans show abnormalities)

It's this 1% that the RWNJ's shout about as "on demand", "late-term", "partial birth" abortions. No reason for us to accept their use of language to cloak their lies.

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Dianne Marie Leonard's avatar

About the South Carolina bill that would "compensate" women who are denied abortions: most of that bill, I can't speak to with any expertise, except to say that women should have choices about our bodies. One thing I *do* know about, in absolutely excruciating detail, is how terribly expensive it is, financially and emotionally, to care for a child--and an adult--with a congenital disability. My guess is that these legislators don't have any idea. Even if they say they'll compensate or assist women who have to care for disabled children or adults, whom they end up caring for because they are denied abortions, they'll low-ball any sort of estimate. The women--and it will almost always be women who will do the labor, let's not forget--will be left hanging. Just one example: how much does 24/7/365 care for a person who has retinopathy of prematurity, severe mental retardation due to birth trauma, and severe physical disability for the same reason cost--in dollars--from birth to, say, age 72? That'd be my older brother. Add in emotional labor, effects on the care of other siblings, wear and tear on the caregivers, and on and on. What about if there's a second child who has a bilateral congenital hip displacia, and multiple other undiagnosed/not understood disabling conditions? (Undiagnosed because medical care for such a person is expensive or unavailable.) That'd be me, now age 71. And a third child, who has severe asthma, to the point that he's in and out of the hospital, from age 1 to age 17? Add in another four kids, two of whom also have disabilities, a parent who lives for 50 years with undiagnosed and untreated PTSD from World War 2, and more--and you get my family. My point is, this is what these legislators want, piled on the backs of the women who are denied abortions. These are the same legislators and "pro-life activists" who crow about how "pro-life" they are, when a family like this is denied food assistance because that parent who is living with PTSD makes one dollar per month "too much". They. Don't. Get. It. "Compensation" never does. This is one of the many reasons that bodily autonomy is so important to me.

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